Kencing....
How to educate a little kid not to pee on the bed at night?
Thats what me and fazli set out to teach shafiq last night. It worked! So for those people out there who have little kids they know of having this problem. This is one way (Though not a sure-fire method) that might just work for you.
Step 1: Recognise why they do it. Diagnose.
Step 2: Encourage and educate them.
Find out why they do it. Are they concious that they do it? Is it done while they are asleep or are they just afraid to wake up and do it? If they are concious about the problem, then find out why they still do it. Is it because they are afraid to wake up and go to the toilet or are they simply plain lazy?
Step 3: Make them practise what you taught them.
After u had diagnosed their problem. Teach them ways to overcome it. If theirs is fear...then teach them to overcome fear. I think many parents instead of teaching their children courange, instil fear i them as a form of control. Personally, i feel it is not right. Especially for muslims, a child should be taught not to fear all these elements of supernatural but only in God should they place fear. Love should be instilled instead of fear.
Step 4: Reward what you should and re-educate if needed.
If they did things right, reward them. There seems to be a system of lack of rewards..just punishment. One expects their child to do all that is right but there is no form of rewards available. No hugs? No kiss? But if u did it wrong..its smacks and silent treatment. Children are smart in reading parents' expression...thats what i learnt from this show at suria.
Step 5: Reward yourself if it works!
And if all turns out well...reward yourself. Actually you'd have already did! No more smelly wet beds or mattresses! YEAY!!! But never forget to reward yourself...you tend to forget yourself sometimes..
So those are the steps i believe can help. If it cant...u got to try others ok! Plus...i spent $10 in the process...hope that money last a lifetime.. Ahaha...
And Brasil won 2-0. It wasnt really a good match. Much like their match against croatia. Lat-the-Kaka played well, so did Faizolinho..but the aussies really clamped on us hard. Kamildo was still slow...so was Noraiano...but she scored. Haiz...Fazlida saved a beautiful acrobatic shot in the 2nd half and the rest was histroy. Naufalinho played a great match as a sub...he contributed to the 2nd gol. After he came on for Kamildo..it sparked a flurry of attacks. Kamildo needs to buck up and stop swooning over opposing players. FOCUS on the match!!
Dats all for now. I need to pack my stuffs. Called up for reservist already. Cant find many stuffs. Spiders already nesting in my webbing and no camou netting for my helmet..if i get a new one..wun have that laojiao look. Darn...jus when im abt to enjoy the hols. Haiz....but its fun jus tinking abt going back!
May Allah guide us all..bless us with happiness and health n protect us from the dangers of this world, physically or mentally. Help us become successful people in the world and after...
Thats what me and fazli set out to teach shafiq last night. It worked! So for those people out there who have little kids they know of having this problem. This is one way (Though not a sure-fire method) that might just work for you.
Step 1: Recognise why they do it. Diagnose.
Step 2: Encourage and educate them.
Find out why they do it. Are they concious that they do it? Is it done while they are asleep or are they just afraid to wake up and do it? If they are concious about the problem, then find out why they still do it. Is it because they are afraid to wake up and go to the toilet or are they simply plain lazy?
Step 3: Make them practise what you taught them.
After u had diagnosed their problem. Teach them ways to overcome it. If theirs is fear...then teach them to overcome fear. I think many parents instead of teaching their children courange, instil fear i them as a form of control. Personally, i feel it is not right. Especially for muslims, a child should be taught not to fear all these elements of supernatural but only in God should they place fear. Love should be instilled instead of fear.
Step 4: Reward what you should and re-educate if needed.
If they did things right, reward them. There seems to be a system of lack of rewards..just punishment. One expects their child to do all that is right but there is no form of rewards available. No hugs? No kiss? But if u did it wrong..its smacks and silent treatment. Children are smart in reading parents' expression...thats what i learnt from this show at suria.
Step 5: Reward yourself if it works!
And if all turns out well...reward yourself. Actually you'd have already did! No more smelly wet beds or mattresses! YEAY!!! But never forget to reward yourself...you tend to forget yourself sometimes..
So those are the steps i believe can help. If it cant...u got to try others ok! Plus...i spent $10 in the process...hope that money last a lifetime.. Ahaha...
And Brasil won 2-0. It wasnt really a good match. Much like their match against croatia. Lat-the-Kaka played well, so did Faizolinho..but the aussies really clamped on us hard. Kamildo was still slow...so was Noraiano...but she scored. Haiz...Fazlida saved a beautiful acrobatic shot in the 2nd half and the rest was histroy. Naufalinho played a great match as a sub...he contributed to the 2nd gol. After he came on for Kamildo..it sparked a flurry of attacks. Kamildo needs to buck up and stop swooning over opposing players. FOCUS on the match!!
Dats all for now. I need to pack my stuffs. Called up for reservist already. Cant find many stuffs. Spiders already nesting in my webbing and no camou netting for my helmet..if i get a new one..wun have that laojiao look. Darn...jus when im abt to enjoy the hols. Haiz....but its fun jus tinking abt going back!
May Allah guide us all..bless us with happiness and health n protect us from the dangers of this world, physically or mentally. Help us become successful people in the world and after...
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