LOVE..chance or choice?
"When we meet the right person to love when
we're at the right place at
the right time, that's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to,
that's not a choice. That's
chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot
of couples who get
together because of this) is not a choice.
That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards.
When will you take that infatuation, that
crush, that mind-blowing
attraction to the next level? That's when all
sanity goes back, you
sit down and contemplate whether you want to
make this into a concrete
relationship or just a fling.
If you decide to love a person, even with
his/her faults, that's not a
chance. That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter
what, that's choice.
Even if you know there are many people out
there who are more
attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate,
and yet, you decide to love
your mate just the same, that's choice.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by
chance. But true love
that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we
make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie
quote that I believe
is so true about this: "Fate brings you
together, but it's still up to you
to make it happen."
I do believe that soul mates do exist. That
there is truly someone
made for you. But it's still up to you to make
the choice if you're going to
do something about it or not. We may meet our
soul mates by chance, but
loving and staying with our soul mate is still
a choice we have to make.We
came to the world not by finding someone
perfect to love ...BUT to learn how to love an
imperfect person perfectly!"
Got this from a friendster bulletin message. This will be my sharing note for today!
we're at the right place at
the right time, that's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to,
that's not a choice. That's
chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot
of couples who get
together because of this) is not a choice.
That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards.
When will you take that infatuation, that
crush, that mind-blowing
attraction to the next level? That's when all
sanity goes back, you
sit down and contemplate whether you want to
make this into a concrete
relationship or just a fling.
If you decide to love a person, even with
his/her faults, that's not a
chance. That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter
what, that's choice.
Even if you know there are many people out
there who are more
attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate,
and yet, you decide to love
your mate just the same, that's choice.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by
chance. But true love
that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we
make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie
quote that I believe
is so true about this: "Fate brings you
together, but it's still up to you
to make it happen."
I do believe that soul mates do exist. That
there is truly someone
made for you. But it's still up to you to make
the choice if you're going to
do something about it or not. We may meet our
soul mates by chance, but
loving and staying with our soul mate is still
a choice we have to make.We
came to the world not by finding someone
perfect to love ...BUT to learn how to love an
imperfect person perfectly!"
Got this from a friendster bulletin message. This will be my sharing note for today!
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